Baby Shower Etiquette List
Who hosts the baby shower and who pays for it? A close friend(s) of the mom-to-be typically hosts the baby showers and are responsible for the paying for the party.
Should a shower be given for a second or third child? It depends on the circumstance. Traditionally, each mother only receives one baby shower. However, close friends often give a second-time mom special keepsakes, diapers and other essentials, and perhaps clothes for a child of a different gender.
When (during the pregnancy) should the shower be held? A shower is traditionally held after the sixth month of pregnancy, usually 1 - 3 months before the due date. Showers can also be held after the baby is born so that everyone can meet the new baby. Typically at least a month or two after the birth date due to germs that can spread before the baby is immunized. Respect for the mother and the baby's schedule must be remembered. Children that are adopted in a family should have showers and welcoming parties too.
How long should the shower last? Two hours is an ideal time. Mid-afternoon is best unless you are planning to serve a meal.
Who should be invited? A baby shower guest list normally includes 6 - 25 close friends and family members. Ask the mom-to-be to put together the invitation list. If it is a surprise shower, ask the dad-to-be to provide names and contact information. If the list is extensive, consider several showers. (friends/family/work)
Where should the shower be held? Depending on the size of the group select a home that best accommodates them. It can also be held in a private room at a restaurant, tearoom or a country club.
When should invitations be sent? Send a hold the date when possible. Invitations should be mailed four weeks prior to the party.
What gifts are appropriate and not appropriate? Remember: Culture Climate Common sense The hostess, is responsible for guiding guests to gifts that are needed and appreciated. The mom-to-be should prepare this list. Showers can be themes thus lending themselves to specific gifts.
Are Games Necessary? You do not have to play games at a shower. It really depends on the personality of the mom-to-be and the intimacy of the guests.
What are trends in baby showers and creative ideas? Dad’s theme showers Grandparent’s shower Grandparent’s sip and see Shower - see Baby Shower ideas on Partymall.com for more theme ideas!
